That email was unreal. M-I wish I could come over and have drink with you because your H is resorting to petty almost laughable desperation all in the name of controlling you. Upholding family traditions, trips, etc are all in the best interest of your kids.
Oh boy, I can see how you and all of us get sucked onto the rollercoaster when you read things like this. I am glad you can take a step back and smile and not entertain that behavior.
He is holding your decision about D field trip hostage. Seriously, is this about an amicable R or control, H?
This is where I am so glad to have this forum. I have learned so much from others here that share their stories and from those that offer advice. You are armed with the tools to carry on without resorting to arguing with your H. I'm just so sorry it has to be this way right now.
Me:33 H:35 M: 12 years D-15 S-6 Bomb: 6-2013 OW: 11/2013 Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair Kids and I moved back in 12/2013 H moved out 2/2014
