Rebel without a clue

[prometheus]

Thanks for your input AnotherStander. I have had a think about your wording of a reply and it seems very reasonable to me. I think i will reply pretty much as you have written.

I don't beleive that my wife is bluffing when she says that she is looking for somewhere else to move, and i do feel guilty thinking of the prospect of the children being disrupted by having to move house. I am worried that they will blame me for not leaving when asked.

You are right about wanting to defend myself. I am getting good at biting my tongue. I am wondering about the fact that my wife is unwilling to work on our marriage. I was thinking that the proposed reply would seem like more 'head in the sand' stuff from me.