It is infuriating the confusion I feel. I went dark today when I woke up for work. I didn't seek him out, I stayed downstairs with the kids and started getting ready for work. He came down to ask if I needed more sleep. No thank you, I'm fine. Then he tells me applied for an extern position with a local hospital. I told him good luck.
We are such good friends but we can't have a marriage. This is more of the same for us.
Me: 33 / H: 36 M: 10y / T: 14y 3 kids BD: 2/22/14 Live in separation 3/8/14 H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14 H moved out 4/25/14 2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month