FY, I don't see a problem w/your ideas...but keep your expectations at zero just in case she's not up to doing them. You might "suggest" instead of tell when you speak to her. Use words like how about we try or you try this or what if we tried this, etc....can you see where I'm going w/this? If your ideas come across as suggestions, she might be more receptive to trying them.
Good luck!
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
