Thanks, Scorp

There is a moderation delay so my stuff shows up late. Thanks Mach for the bump. Hopefully, the moderation will cease sooner than later.

It's NEVER too late. Just gets harder and more expensive. And, again, as this is about kids (and they grow up with or without you), they can't afford either, can they? This is the part where you HAVE to do the right thing and stand up FOR them. As everyone here has stated, your W is thinking about herself.

You CAN do this! It's the first BIG step on the way to being the new Scorp- better dad, better man, and better partner to whomever you choose to have in your life.

Mr MSant2-
Thanks for repeating the question.
I don't like the answer yet.
Work to be done. Never ends.


Control is impossible
Detach from the emotion of this
Be your natural self
Earn back your self-respect
Assign responsibility equally
Realize this process will improve you