Thanks Zew and AS- I won't mention it until she does (and I know she may never). AS- I'm letting her do all the work. She is figuring out how she can afford the house, figuring out custody (50/50), and getting all the paperwork and finances in a row. That she is going this far makes me realize that filing isn't far away. She said she wants to come to an agreement to take to a L together to make things as easy and amicable. I've just validated her concerns and made no movements towards anything else. I've heard "I love you and will always love you"-- sure doesn't make sense to me that she wants D. But I know nothing can really be done as long as her "feelings" for OM are so "strong". I don't have concrete proof and won't snoop to find it. Her actions have been proof enough.
