Today I got the letter in the mail from his lawyer with the court date of our final divorce hearing. I knew it was coming but it still feels so ... weird and sad. The date is April 4th and I don't have to be there so I'm not going. It's just a piece of paper and to me it is opening the door to the new part of the journey. Now maybe he'll see that it changes nothing or maybe he'll feel better about it. Doesn't matter. Now I know where he lives though because they put his address on the letter and cc'd me on it. That doesn't matter either, not like i'm going to go over there or become a stalker. Onward and forward. I'm almost looking forward to being no one's girlfriend or wife since I was 16 years old. This will be good for me to finally know me as an individual and not shared things.
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
