my story, my problems that I started

[zew]

You do not mention EA/PA to W. Nothing to be gained there at all. Nothing.

If you have concrete proof of PA, you should share that with your L as it might give you some leverage in D negotiations later on if it gets to that point.

DBing is so tough because I want to cause some conflict and do a temp. check. I don't want a D, but I hate this limbo.

Yes, it is the toughest thing you will ever do. And I'm not just saying that. It is hard. And it is hard because you have to learn to stow that urge to "cause some conflict". Conflict is your enemy. A powerful enemy that you shouldn't toy with.
You want the opposite of conflict. Limbo is not fun, but it is better than conflict. Limbo gives you time. Time is your friend.

DB can teach you that, but it will take extreme will power to suppress what you think is "right".

Forget the OM. Seriously, that is the assignment. The OM is not your problem, simply because he is not there for you to fight.

You must accept the fact that the OM exists, but is not in your sphere of influence. Concentrate on what you control - you. Not W, not OM.