"( I wanted to say how dare you think you have any decision in the parenting of these children when I believe that destroying a family and a divorce is the WORST possible thing you can do to children. Yes this is what I believe and no one can change my mind on that. I did not say any of that. Just thought it:)"

Is or was there a reason why you believe your way was the "better" way and why you had dismissed him in the past? My kids were in preschool for 5 days out of the week and it worked out great. The issue between your M and your kids are separate. He has just as much right in the say of how the kids are raised as much as you. The divorce relates to the relationship between the two of you, not with him and the kids.


M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER