Pray for strength. My H moved out a few weeks ago and didn't even bother telling me he was moving, I saw missing items and asked if he was moving out that weekend and he said yes. The first night is the hardest but then it gets easier as your process it and adjust. Actually it's nice now that he's not in the house radiating negativity. Of course I want him back but I have had no contact in over a week & only for 5 minutes and I have no idea where he lives. What i'm saying is that it doesn't matter what you texted or said, he has to go through this and come to his own decisions. The sooner you accept it and let him go then he can continue on his journey. When he's through it he'll either let you know or he won't. no guarantees. It's a harsh reality but it is what it is. You can't fix it, you didn't break it. Focus on you and the kids. If you pray...I always include something like "I put this in your hands Lord" and let Him handle it.
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs
