Originally Posted By: Breakdown
The only reasoning I can come up with for this behavior is that I was fulfilling some of her needs and OM was fulfilling others....and as dysfunctional as that seems, apparently it's an attractive solution for her. As weird as I find the sitch, it sounds like you are in a similar boat.


Yes it sounds like very similar, its like he wants me as his BFF and i'm sorry but i'm not willing to take that "demotion" and just slot in where suits him!! I'm his wife or a stranger, nothing in between, of course we need to coparent plus have a business together so it makes it difficult to draw a clear line but I absolutely refuse to just be there when it suits him!

My kids are only 3 and 6 so dont really understand fully as i've kept it age appropriate, my daughter said tonight though that shes very angry at her Daddy frown


Divorce Final: Oct 2014

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