Thank you for responding...both of you! It is so nice to have people to talk to about this.

He just acts so normal. He isn't being mean or lying about everything. He is still being a wonderful father and taking care of all of us. He has dinner ready after the kids practice, he makes lunch if they ask, he offers to let me sleep, offers to get me coffee. I'm starting to wonder if this is combined MLC and WAS. He just seems to have turned off his emotions for me and is ready to move on. Life around here truly does feel like it always did. The only things missing are the ILY and the subtle touches that make a couple married.


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month