Ask yourself...What would voicing the affair do to the situation? Would it change anything? More then likely, just cause her to be on the defensive and drive her more towards OM. Worry about only the things you can control. You can't control what she does so my advice is to let it go. If you do end up getting a divorce, it still doesn't mean you don't get back together. Keep being the better person you want to be. Let her continue to see it. She will be done with the OM on her time and ONLY then. Just keep focusing on you.
