He can't afford an apartment right now. He doesn't have a job and the only one he can get for now will be part time. So, unless his brother is helping him or he has a room mate then it may be a few more months.

I know it probably wasn't healthy but I looked through all of my old texts with him. As of new years eve he was still telling me he loved me, still planning for our future (we had a conversation about being broke and he said we only have one year left until graduation)...

Mid Dec we had a tift. He said it was my tone. I told him that I felt like he wasn't happy with US / our marriage and that he acts like he is stuck and resigned to his fate. He said "I like my life very much. And I am stuck in school and don't make a paycheck. Pretty sure it's your tone"

Could this have been one of the tipping points? Could my words to him caused him to step back and re-think his position??


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month