Mach, you're right, I suppose I have been playing the victim lately. I'm getting stronger, still have a ways to go to totally detach. I have some good moments and some bad but the good moments are slowly starting to be more of the norm rather than the exception.
Me-40,W-37 D7, D5, S3 Separated Oct 3/2013 T 11 YRS M 7 YRS