We've both been pretty open about both of our IC goings on. I didn't go into extreme detail with her. Just some key points that I felt apply to our sitch. She has indicated that me seeing an IC is important to her so at least keeping her abreast with the progress is probably prudent. I don't HAVE to tell her anything and she would probably say the same thing. But given the fact that she has been fairly open about her IC sessions pretty much indicates I should at least keep her in the loop to a certain degree.

She got pretty mad at me when she found out I went to the MC a 2nd time and didn't tell her. So I'll take that as a sign I should at least keep her in the loop on this.


Me: 33
W: 27
S: 5
D: 2
Bomb: 1/2/14
First Separation: 1/25/14
MC: 2/7/14 (one time only)
Moved Back in: 3/31/14
W says she wants a divorce and moves out: 7/26/14
Appt to sign dissolution: 12/30/14