I wouldn't read too much into the "who you'll end up with" comment. Obvious that she is still searching for answers on her side. Did you bring up your counseling sessions or did she ask about them?
M: 43 W: 43 Married 6 yrs. T: 7 yrs. Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10