I agree 3 Boyz. It sounds like you have had many positive communications with your h. That is good. However, it can cause expectations. Expectations=bad. Sometimes, it seems (gasp!) almost easier when they act like an a$$. I do have to chuckle at the comment by your h about having dinners if/when he remarries. Maybe you get there one day-who knows? But it seems premature to even mention something as uncomfortable as that. Yikes!
I had an interesting question from my S4 last night. He said, "Mommy, is daddy your best friend?" I had to really think about that because h was my best friend and my biggest cheerleader. This version of h is not someone I would be friends with, but I kept it simple with my 4 year old.
Hang in there:)
3 kids BD 12/15/13 (IDKIILY. ) Rope dropped Cirque du Soleil style D final 9-9-14 "Some people are born on 3rd base and go through life thinking they hit a triple." Barry Switzer
