It's sort of ironic isn't it? My W is trying to play the victim card because she says she was afraid of me and yet through this whole thing I've had a hard time even defending myself because I had it stuck in my head that doing that could hurt her. I always knew that she was the one person that could hurt me the most and that's proven to be true.
It IS ironic....
Cause YOU have been paying that victim card too....
You have become a victim of your own in-actions, by blaming HER for not seeing your kids....