When the W has the kids I always send her a text asking if the kids were good. I usually get back one or two text messages, all business type messages and not too lengthy.
Last night she sent me 18 messages and even asked if I was feeling better. She has opened up quite a bit recently.
To me it seems that the "talk" we are going to have might be an actual conversation, not just a lecture from her.
M:34 XW:34 Together: 10y Living: 9y Married: 7y Son:6 Son:4 Separated: 12/28/13 Piecing: 5/2/14 Separated 2nd: 10/16/14 W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14 papers served: 1/27/15 D final: 3/6/15
