Scorp, dude the woman takes off with your kids and moves them hours a way and falsely calls the cops on you and is now fighting to keep you from seeing them regularly, and you just want to give her a hug? Really. Honestly, that's messed up. You don't have to hate her, but she is trying to gut you and your life and your kids and your finances. She is a storm of devastation approaching you fast. She is not your FRIEND right now. BEWARE, BE VARY AWARE of that.