I'm doing the right thing but it sure feels wrong.
Reframe this....
instea of "wrong"....it feels "different".
Fighting for your kids is NEVER "wrong", standing up for yourself and having healthy boundaries is not "wrong", consulting an atty to secure time with your kids is not "wrong"....
It just feels different.
DB is counterintuative. Remember that. The wanting to hug and wisper sweet nothings in her and ear and tell her everything is going to be okay...is not counterintuative. Practice reshifing your focus.
Peace, Eric
"The difficulties of Life are intended to make us BETTER,not bitter". "Fear is a prison, where you are the jailer. FREE YOURSELF!" "Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B." - Jack3Beans
