EXPECTATION = DISAPPOINTMENT, which leads to hurt, anger and fustration. ACCEPT where he is today. It takes a lot of practice 3B…a lot…but you can get there.
I want to expand this a bit...
(Although after a 15,000 word ePicmsant2 post, there isn't any more left) : )
Expectations are formed from expecting positive things as well as the negativity in your life.
Expecting that he will do something that doesn't happen, will lead to you being frustrated...
Just remember that you expecting him NOT to do something, will lead to the same frustrations....
So go easy with ANY expectations...
Now, we return to the preface the next epic novel...