Its just hard to not be like we were but she filed so reality is it is different. W had such a lousy day at work yesterday that I was going to text her saying I hope today was going better ..but I know it's a no no...keep reminding myself things are different and to focus on me. Going to go read DB again now and focus.


Me: 47
Her: 45
M 18 years
T 22 years
S-6 D-9
Separate rooms 1/5/14
Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14