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Well I went against my instincts today and agreed with my husband. We are getting ready to put our middle child in preschool next year. I wanted to put her in for 3 days as we had the older one. He wanted five days. I gave him my reasons why. Older one did it, hard on her etc. He came back with his reasons. I asked this morning if he had made a decision regarding the five days. He said he wants her to go five days. He believes it will help her with speech. She will enjoy it.( I wanted to say how dare you think you have any decision in the parenting of these children when I believe that destroying a family and a divorce is the WORST possible thing you can do to children. Yes this is what I believe and no one can change my mind on that. I did not say any of that. Just thought it:)
I just said I will respect your decision. I told him I do plan on taking her out once in awhile for special occasions or for a play day. This is only preschool. He said - Sure go ahead.
One of his biggest complaints was lack of respect from me Granted I had to think today regarding this issue am I arguining for the sake of arguining or is this what I truly feel. In the long run - will it truly matter if she goes 3 or 5 days a week to preschool. No not really. There are tons of issues that we will have to resolve together for our children. This one is not worth falling on my sword over.
Thanks DBs - last year before BD I would have argued, pouted etc. and just did things my way.