We are on almost the exact same timeline. I hope that folks are telling you that youve been doing a really great job - because you have!
You have taken huge steps in every direction that you have control over. The 10% save is HUGE! Why would you tell your X about the house? Has she asked you "are you buying a house?" If not, its none of her business - until its time to renegotiate parent time
I still have flashbacks about stupid/embarrassing things from the past.......I yell "get out of my head" and turn the mental page in my head. SERIOUSLY, when this happens start doing math problems in your head- It changes your brain from emotional to logical.....it works.
You sound as emotionally needy as me right now. Time to add some new activity to your plate. You can wait until after you move but you need to get involved in something social.
We are moving forward despite winter blues .
I know when your X is coming back- Whenever SHE decides to get her head out of her arse.......and if you do ANYTHING to try to expedite that process it will just be pushed back further.
You (and your awesomeness) are all we care about
ME 38 W 37 T18 M5 D3 BD 1/7/13 PA Conf 2/11/13- Ongoing 2nd simultaneous affair Confirmed 4/19/13 W gets APT and begins transition out 5/29/13 First mediation appt 12/19/13
