Glad you had a fun trip! Were you able to dodge the snow?
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can I set a boundary that I do not want to hear from him while I am on vacation, other than if he wants to speak with the kids?
You can definitely set a boundary, but flip it. Let your H know that unless it's an emergency (the house burned down, someone close to you died, etc), you won't be returning calls or texts. Let him know that you'll have the kids call him to talk whenever they want, though.
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In other news, my H is beyond pissed off at me, I assume because I didn't agree with his proposed parenting plan (where he has the kids for 6 nights in a row in each two week block, until mid May, when he is done with a class he is teaching, then he wants 50/50).
Don't fight this one, because the court will do it for you. My XH wanted us to do every other week (needless to say, I did NOT). Our mediator told him that if he pressed this issue, they'd have to assign a GAL, who would come to the conclusion our state generally adopts: that kids need access to BOTH parents during the week. My XH backed down very quickly. And the court makes every attempt to do what is in the best interest of the kids. Besides, you can always say that it will hinder YOU in finding a job (because it will).
Chin up and hope the exercise helps!
Betsey
"There are only 2 ways to live your life. One is as though nothing is a miracle. The other is as though everything is a miracle."
