I'm just really unsure if i'm wasting my time on this, am I better just to walk away and completely cut contact with him except for minimal contact at work?
Yes. Do it not to save your M, but to save YOU. You're on his roller coaster and you need to get off of it before you can start your healing process.
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Is there a chance here, has anyone been through similar and what was the outcome?
We can't predict what will happen, many of the LBS's here do eventually reconcile but it's after long months if not years of working on themselves and becoming independent, strong, happy people. Accuray just mentioned in another thread that the LBS has to get to the point that they really don't care what happens to their M, they are moving on and enjoying life regardless. It's at THAT point that sometimes the WAS looks back.
