Unbidden, not correcting you, just saying that pursuing its when the other part goes against what we are doing... He was helping her with a memory card, thats all, maybe his intentions were to do that to bring her back, but he asked her before doing it and she agreed with that so the pursuing doesnt exist in this case.... Again there are not techniques, she responded to his actions naturally and how she felt, you cant tell her to only behave in that way once she assures him that everything will be ok, when a person its scared, actions move in a different way that words, she approached him so thats a little step and its a nice step she took. Appreciate and accept without judging why she did it.
When the student its ready, the teacher will appear... Even after all this time the sun never says to the Earth, "You owe me." Look what happens with a love like that,It lights the whole sky.
