Yesterday W came home from work. I asked how her day went and she said everything went wrong that could..i just listened. Her mobile phone also kept freezing up and she realized that when she had it repaired they forgot to replace the SD card so she had picked up a new one after work. But it was the wrong one and she was flustered. I told her to relax and that I would run out and get the proper memory card. Should i have done this? She said she appreciated it. I had homemade spaghetti sauce going on the stove for dinner. When I was out she texted me to pick up some fresh pasta and batteries for our kids 2 way radios ..so I did. When I got home she got her phone working. I got dinner together, we ate and had pleasant conversation and I cleaned up ..we then sat on the couch watching TV and fell asleep there together. I woke up at 1 and went up to bed. She woke up at 230 and went to bed. I am GAL, doing 180s but this is weird as its like everything is normal. Advice? Should I not have helped her with her phone? Should I not be making dinner for the two of us? Not sharing couch? ...I'm just a little confused. I felt like texting her saying thanks for the nice evening but is that stupid/pursuing?
Me: 47 Her: 45 M 18 years T 22 years S-6 D-9 Separate rooms 1/5/14 Wife filed for divorce 2/5/14