Job, thank you - I do appreciate the time that you and others have taken to stop by and offer some perspective on all of this.
It can be a little difficult to move on with your life when the past keeps coming back like this. I truly never thought that 8/9 years on he would still be doing this stuff.
Fwiw I think a bit of him does miss me and what we had, but you know, in this life we make choices, and then we live with them.
As AA shows people, they have to face up to what they have done before they can truly move on.
The next big thing is my youngest son's wedding. I am wondering what stunts he will pull for this. My eldest son's was difficult for me, to put it mildly, but it didn't impact on my son, whose day it was.
