Job, I have been reading as much as I can about going dark. It worked wonderfully for me 4 years ago. That is what caused the turn around and brought him back home.

The thing about going dim... He already does his own laundry, cooks for the family, helps keep the house clean, etc. One of our big issues is the lack of romance / room mate feel we have between us.


Me: 33 / H: 36
M: 10y / T: 14y
3 kids
BD: 2/22/14
Live in separation 3/8/14
H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14
H moved out 4/25/14
2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month