Bea, I am very sorry that he's still going at it, but I don't think he's going to stop any time soon. Even when the company regulator tells him that nothing is amiss, he's still going to continue down that path of trying to prove he was short changed. Whatever he thinks has happened is now deeply embedded in his brain and nothing is going to change his mind and I hate to say this, but he's going to beat this dead horse to a second death and who knows, maybe he's hoping that you'll pay him to go away. Whatever you do, don't pay him off because then he'll say he was right about everything.
It's a shame he doesn't realize that life is far too short to continue badgering you and the company for something that has already been negotiated and signed off on a few years ago. It's sad that he can't enjoy the life that he thought he was going to have...but life doesn't always turn out the way you think it will be especially if you've treated someone shabbily and unfairly and I do think that the way he treated you will haunt him for the rest of his life. Oh, he won't tell you or your sons how he feels...but it's evident by the fact that he still wants to do things w/you that he misses you and the family.
Bea, I am keeping you in my thoughts and prayers and hope that this issue can be resolved very soon. You don't need this issue hanging over your head forever and a day.
Please take care of yourself.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
