Running is good, a way to keep at least somewhat sane when you have stress... just being outside and in nature is good...
You could always run and then be with your H afterwards - your happiness is at least as important (especially to you!) as his... being an engineer (I am one) is no guarantee of logic...
Shopping with d16 is not clear now - she and I went for a walk yesterday, on one of those clear, clean, Swedish spring days here, and I asked when we should go. She said it wasn't necessary, as she has enough clothes already, it would spoil her... I said that I could use some clothes too (shirts please!) but she thought I have enough already... not sure how to repackage this and make it happen. I think I have one more chance to sell the idea.
Luke
M58, xW54 S22, D18 M 1984, D 2016 Living a new life.