I like what braveheart says...all blow and no show. Also, what you said awhile back is making more sense to me. He may be running out of money and is looking to take some of what he feels he is entitled to by fabricating some story about whatever! You xh is totally out of control and/or whacked out. I'm hoping that there is something that you can do legally to stop this nonsense without spending too much time or money.
You deserve peace and for longer than just a few months or years at a time. Something is motivating him. Whether it's the money or personal issues something has to be done to stop this. I'm sorry that you're dealing this for what seems like the hundredth time.
It's so difficult to see the person that we've know and were married to for 30+ years turn into someone that we no longer recognize. It's almost like they've snapped or that a foreign being has invaded their body. We want to feel sorry for them but what good does that do? It keeps our focus on someone who doesn't deserve it right now.
Just a note, I'm won't be posting on my own thread for a bit. A little breach of security has me worried that my h will start snooping here. The latest is that he received a copy of my attorney's email stating that "spousal support" is necessary. That got his attention in a hurry. He called me at least 6 times within a 2 hour timeframe and get this, tells me that he isn't paying and to "fix it"! What an a$$. He came by a few hours later and was sweet and kind and wanted to go out for a drink. CRAZY!
Take good care of yourself and do what Wonka suggested. Get the Big Guns out. They will protect you and guide you.
Me:57H:62 M:34T:35 2S,2D (grown nlah) BD:09/2012 visits M ow EA/PA?:10/2012 H moves out 06/2013
"Do not let the behavior of others destroy your inner peace." -Dalai Lama
