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Hi Bright,

I think you're right in thinking that he is still processing the time that you spent together at your vacation home. He will contact you when he is ready.

I think you did a great job of dbing while you were there and the times that you were in his company. A lot of positive signs yet they seem to need extra time to process things while in mlc unless they are lashing out in anger or want something from us.

I will think positive thoughts about a job opportunity for you. That will change your focus as well as give you something to feel good about. Things do seem to be improving for jobs in most areas. If you're near a larger city in one of the areas where the economy is recovering, you should be employed soon.

I also wanted to let you know that I may not be posting on my own thread for awhile. My h surprised me last week by coming by to install a new program on my computer. He didn't give me any notice at all so I hadn't wiped out my browsing history. The first thing he did when he sat down at my computer was to click on the "address bar" and it dropped down to reveal this site. He clicked on it and up pops the home page! I was paralyzed and when he commented by saying "divorce busting" followed by a chuckle, I said nothing. He then apologized and said he wasn't trying to pry into my business. There were so many things I could have said but kept my mouth shut.