It's hard to enjoy the positives without developing expectations and then being let down when the behavior changes. You're doing great. Try to sound upbeat and kind when he calls.


Me:33 H:35
M: 12 years
D-15 S-6
Bomb: 6-2013
OW: 11/2013
Kids and I moved out: 11/2013 when he continued to lie about affair
Kids and I moved back in 12/2013
H moved out 2/2014