Ye, thank you for reading snd commenting on my sitch. I agree with most of what you wrote. I'm trying to accept and focus on me and the person I want to be.
My D is moving on, and I'm a bit stuck in getting over wanting someone who does not want me. I actually do pretty well on a day to day basis because My H is not around, but most contact is about seperating our finances, phones etc. Or about his contacting the girls. I miss having a partner.
Having said that, I do realize that I need to be an independent person and a good roll model for my girls. I have become a better Mother, and I hope to build on that to become the best woman and Mom that I can be. I am doing the work for myself.
M45 H46 M16 yrs D17, D10, D7 DB 1-23-2014 H filed D 2-14-2014