Hey Hope, I think you are doing great. I don't have as much experience as the others at giving advice but the one thing I would say is try not to read too much into what is "normal". My W still says there is no chance but normal some weeks is us having fun and hugging to the next week normal of her not even able to make eye contact. Don't forget your H is on a rollercoaster too and normal can be setting expectations.

I'm really glad your sitch is looking good though.


M: 43 W: 43
Married 6 yrs.
T: 7 yrs.
Son 20, 18, 17, 15 yrs. (w/ Autism), 12, 10