Our relationship has been very child centered. We have grown very far apart. To the point that that when I call to tell the children goodnight H and I didn't even speak. When we did, it was to ask about the kids. We quit kissing goodnight or hello or goodbye. We truly are friends living in a house raising a few kids.
If I go dark, it will honestly be just a more extreme version of the same. A 180 would be to include him in my life again... However, this is also is also pursuing behavior.
We are still living together. How would I go dark (if I should) in this situation?
Me: 33 / H: 36 M: 10y / T: 14y 3 kids BD: 2/22/14 Live in separation 3/8/14 H consult lawyer, says filing asap 4/24/14 H moved out 4/25/14 2nd time around. 1st separation 4y ago lasted a month
