Thanks Ye, that is kind of what I was thinking. Just go and listen to her about how she feels. I was mentally preparing for this conversation not to take place until July. She is going to Spain in June and previously she had stated something about a six month separation being a good duration, some article she had read I guess.

Looks like I have some work to do this weekend. Need to get set on listening to how she feels and what she wants and not talking about my needs or feelings.


M:34 XW:34
Together: 10y
Living: 9y
Married: 7y
Son:6 Son:4
Separated: 12/28/13
Piecing: 5/2/14
Separated 2nd: 10/16/14
W filed, but pulled it: 11/5/14
papers served: 1/27/15
D final: 3/6/15