GB- thanks for the tips - i will just start with one and see how it feels! i don't know why it is a hard step for me. I did see a group for kids http://www.dc4k.org/ you could see if they have a local meeting, I think you just enter your zip code. I get their daily emails for adults going through it and find it helpful, though not as helpful as this place. your story about your h was funny but i know its not for you
Me - 42 exH - 56 Married 10.5 years Together 17 bomb dropped 1/6/14 signed papers 2/4/14 H moved out 2/22/14 D final 4/4/14 Dropped the rope 5/17/14 2 cats, 2 dogs