GB- thanks for the tips - i will just start with one and see how it feels! i don't know why it is a hard step for me.
I did see a group for kids http://www.dc4k.org/ you could see if they have a local meeting, I think you just enter your zip code. I get their daily emails for adults going through it and find it helpful, though not as helpful as this place. your story about your h was funny but i know its not for you


Me - 42
exH - 56
Married 10.5 years
Together 17
bomb dropped 1/6/14
signed papers 2/4/14
H moved out 2/22/14
D final 4/4/14
Dropped the rope 5/17/14
2 cats, 2 dogs