Originally Posted By: 2ndTimeHurt
Here's a question a need a quick answer to.

Anyway, my ex informed me she has a bag of clothes for s3 that she got from a "friend" that she wants to sort through tonight. Honestly, if they are from om I don't want any(I don't want reminders). Am I been unreasonable?(they are just clothes). How do I bring this up? I have a feeling I should just stfu.
2nd, if you want the clothes you should consider it. clothes are just clothes. there's nothing to be gained or lost by what you do here with regards to accepting them or not. you may want to STFU as you say if your only objection is OM. Perhaps that would become an issue.


me: 47, W:49
M 16.5 years
T 17 years
Three kids - D17,D14, S13
Heart 2 heart about M 11/8/13
Bomb drop 11/29/13
W moved out 12/5/13
I Retained L 2/20/14
D filed 3/17/14