I think it based on this interaction in Tarheel's thread, in which you seemed to be suggesting a more aggressive approach to a cake eating W. The DR approach is pretty passive, basically you wait out the A, because you are in essentially a position of little to no leverage. So I wanted to know how you really could reasonably act on your decision that you deserved more and weren't going to take crap, besides the nuclear option.
I'm sure I've misunderstood either the comment or how one would do that. That was why I was seeking clarification.
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But then what, Sandi? Unless you plan to file, how does your decision manifest itself?
Well, do you believe you deserve better, or not? If you do, then you start acting like it and stop accepting what she's dishing out.
Stop being afraid and remember that you are a man and that's basically why she fell in love with you. We women want our men to be decisive and stop acting like they've been castrated. We hate.....hate.....hate passive males. We will eat them alive! B/c we know we can!
You better be ready to do whatever is necessary to be the man of your own home, or accept an open M. That's what it boils down to.
