I don't understand the comparison of choosing to have an affair to choosing apples over oranges. If you had a committed relationship with oranges you would not choose apples. What happened to the vows? do they stand for only one or both?

I learned that loving "unconditionally" is unhealthy if your partner doesn't. The person that loves unconditionally is more liable to be taken advantage of and would be able to be hurt easier than the one who doesn't.

Me 43 W 43
S 10 (Special Needs)
M: 14 yrs
T: 18 yrs
Bomb: 09/16/12
Filed for D: WHO KNOWS???