Sex-Starved??? That's an understatement!

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Things have been very amicable lately. w said she was going out again the other night. She usually discloses everything about what she does but she doesn't do it this night. Now I wonder what she is going to do. She leaves with her laptop and a bottle of vodka. I know i'm not supposed to but i'm not at that point yet where it doesn't bother me. I said have a good time and left it at that. Most people i talk to say that i'm being stepped on by her and that I should put my foot down. DR stresses that no reconciliation can take place if the WAS feels tension or pressure and so I rescinded all my ultimatums and deadlines. So how can I put my foot down without putting pressure on her? I mean, I feel, she's been a grade A cake eater. Its been very hard to resist not taking her temperature on where she's at. I've been turning down chances to meet somebody else almost every day but I believe in what i'm doing to try and save my M