And why does it matter? I know it shouldn't. I do. But it does bust my buttons that he may be telling everyone that I am so fine with his decision to move on and therefore, he looks like he is the good guy after all. But it sounds like we all go through our partners doing that to us on some level.
Let me start by saying I just about could have written much of your post. I feel ya, sister. But this one interests me.
Why DO you care still? Why does it still bust your buttons?
I know in my case, it did both me for a long (too long?) time. I really don't care any longer. I don't want to talk to her, but I don't care if I do. I don't care what she says or does. It really makes no difference in my life any more.
So I'm curious if it's just a place you're currently at on the journey or if there's more to it?
AJ
"Our lives begin to end the day we become silent about things that matter" MLK Put the glass down... "Yesterday I was clever so I wanted to change the world Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
