M - You are doing really well given your H's action and this entire $h!**y process. You stuck to your beliefs and desires. You filed the S, which is what you felt conformable doing. You did not want a D, so you left it for your H to take that step. I think it is admirable!
Originally Posted By: melissag
I need to get back to where I was when I was DBing with the hope of getting my H back. Not in the sense that I am trying to get him to come back, but in the sense that I had a plan then and I was able to stick with my plan no matter what my H threw at me.
I am letting him get to me and throw me off my plan. Not good.
Your post really inspired me this morning. The fact that my H is being friendly is throwing me off my plan. I am not really DBing. I just wanted to thank for your the reminder and for inspiring me today!
