I need some advice regarding our current sitch with the kids/parenting time.
Currently, my H has the kids on Wednesday and Friday evenings. He also takes the kids to school in the morning on M,W,F. We have a family day on Sunday.
We are moving into springs sports season. This year is the first time that S5 and S3 will both be playing on teams, which will be sending us in opposite directions.
H called today to see how we wanted to handle things. Their games will be on Saturdays (my normal day with the kids). H also wants to be able to take the kids out individually to practice outside of the normal games/practices. The problem that arises if that you cant practice with S5 or S3 when the other kids are around because it is simply a circus. Both of us would prefer to be with the other kids (who are not practicing) as opposed to having a family member/babysitter.
We both want to be involved with the kids activities. I realize that this is a good problem to have. But how in the world do I keep boundaries and start moving on with my life if my H is so involved (again I realize that this is a good thing)? While it may be okay for the moment, I cant imagine how this would play out long term if he filed for D.
