Sorry to see you here. Its worth saving if your willing to put in the work to become the best person you can be. Read the DR and use Sandi2's 37 rules and it will help you get through this.

If it dont save your marriage the awesome side benefit from this is that it will save you!

Keep posting, you will be in good hands here.

H 37
WAW 32
S 4 (Autistic)
S 2
Together 11 years
Married 6
Bombshell Dec 1 2012
House sold, flying solo June 1 2013.